Tuesday, September 05, 2006

The Truth About Women and No Strings Sex

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Recently I was browsing one of the No Strings Attached Sex groups and a man was ranting about how pissed off he was about all the women he had encountered who were members of that group but when it came right down to it were not down with no strings attached sex. Other men empathized with him and shared their experiences about women they dealt with and gave advice. One woman in the group advised him to try sending the woman flowers which I though would be great advice for a relationship but sending a mixed message when pursuing someone for a no strings hookup. Since no one else was offering any really helpful information I told him that women usually have a very, short attention span when it comes to lust. If you can get her to meet you for a hook-up ASAP while you're both hot and bothered with all the sex talk, cancel whatever else you have to do, bring condoms, lube, toys or whatever and hit it. If you make plans for later, that gives a woman time to cool off, start feeling guilty about giving it up without commitment, cheating on her boyfriend/girlfriend/husband, or start getting scared that you might be a serial killer. So if she starts to hesitate when you try to make plans to have sex later, be understanding, give her a cell phone number and/or email address to contact you when she's ready and move on. Forget about her. If all the things that the two of you discussed earlier really made her hot, she won't be able to stop thinking about you. Especially once you stop contacting her. Out of the blue one day, she will hunt you down to give up the goodies. Just make sure she's not a psycho, fatal attraction type and again remember to bring protection. In the meantime always keep your options open. Don't always pursue the hot looking girls. Some of the plainer looking ones will give it up more quickly and offer you the hottest, nastiest, freakiest, pornographic sex you've ever had.

What is your view of no strings sex? What advise would you have given to the frustrated guy?

Do you you think average looking people are generally better sex partners than the hot looking folks?

a. Yes. Without a doubt. Most hotties are too into themselves to please their partner.
b. No. Don't be ridiculous. Looks have nothing to do with it.
c. The jury is still out on this one.

1 comment:

Renegade said...

I haven't done it with anyone other than my wife since before we've been married. I'd be more willing to swing with her than cheat on her, but I'd be worried about new relationships popping up... so no-strings sex is essential!

I think it would be fun to experiment with other people again... it's definitely not about the looks ("ugly" people can be sexy), though it's nice to have a hotty!

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